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Eric Berne: the Best of Games People Play ❰Reading❯ ➶ Eric Berne: the Best of Games People Play Author Ernest Kinnie – Thomashillier.co.uk You best understand psychological concepts and strategies by experiencing them Talking about them is good Experiencing and then talking about them is much better And now and then go have some Frivolou You best understand psychological concepts and strategies by the Best PDF ↠ experiencing them Talking about them is good Experiencing and then talking about them is much better And now and then go have some Frivolous Fun to give your brain a restWhen your Adult, Parent, and Children work well together, changing the balance among them to meet the needs of the moment, you have a good life If one becomes too dominant too much of the time, you close off possibilities for love, joy and adventureYou ll also explore the games you play, your stamp collection, Eric Berne: Kindle - and the fairy tales that shape your life Your Adult, Parent, and Children The games you play The joys of stamp collecting Fairy tales shape your life At the end of the dayFrivolous Fun YOUR ADULT, PARENT, AND CHILDRENStart with your Natural Child, the part that is adventurous, happy and freeSudden in a shaft of sunlight,Even while the dust moves,There rises the hidden laughterOf children in the foliageQuick now, here, now, alwaysRidiculous the waste sad time,Stretching before and afterT S EliotIt will be hard for your Natural Child to come out and play if Berne: the Best PDF ↠ your Adult, Parent or Unnatural Children get in the wayAdult is your words data logic, computer brain It has an enormous amount of information about the world, knowledge essential for your survival But your Adult is usually aware of only superficial aspects of the natural world For instance your Adult glances at a tree, quickly classifies it tree usingordefining characteristics and pays no further attention to it The tree has become a wordOur schools and much of our culture reward that kind of experiencing and you become a proficient word pusher, who hasn t felt the bark of a real tree in years Your Adult will want good, logical reasons why you should spend time walking down the street acting like a kidYour Parent may also give you plenty of trouble It s your authoritarian, judgmental part that expects you to measure up Taking a silly walk in the sunshine when there s work to be done is not measuring up You should be finishing that report, cleaning your bedroom, reading a good book, instead acting weird and attracting the attention of strangers What good is that going to do anybody Your Parent is also only aware of the surface aspects of Reality That grass needs cutting That sidewalk is filthy She shouldn t be wearing those colors Why are you wasting your time on a stupid walk To help reassure your Adult and Parent, tell them the book you are reading told you to, and it s written by a PhD psychologist who knows what he s talking aboutThen there s your Unnatural Children, shaped and scrambled when you were a little tyke playing in the sandbox We all grew up in environments that were both toxic and nurturant Unnatural Children are created by under or over controlling parents, dangerous neighborhood, serious illness, lousy schools, etcIt never occurs to a beaten down Unnatural Child that puddles are to jump into, strange doors are to open, weird clothes are for trying on, and frogs are to sleep with A rebellious Unnatural Child does them allEverybody has both beaten down and rebellious Unnatural Children because nobody grows up in a perfect environment, or has perfect genes Your beaten down Unnatural Child will be too scared to go on that walk Your rebellious Unnatural Child will tell me to go jump in a cold lake.


10 thoughts on “Eric Berne: the Best of Games People Play

  1. Peter Kiss Peter Kiss says:

    Crystal clear


  2. Mani Mani says:

    great followup and reframing of games people play and introduction to ego states.


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